Comments on: I Woke Up At The End

By: Evita Cawthron

Evita Cawthron — Wed, 16 Jun 2010 04:10:44 +0000

Thanks for writing the blog post. It was a really great read..

By: sn0tty

sn0tty — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 18:03:50 +0000

So true. Luckily, I got some of it back and then gave it to someone worthy.

By: llxt

llxt — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 14:25:06 +0000

"Isn’t that how all great marriages end – with as much physical, mental, and emotional pain possible?"

It seems like all relationships in general have to end this way. There's just something about giving someone your SOUL and then having to take it back that's…painful. ha ha.

By: sn0tty

sn0tty — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:52:13 +0000

I didn't know you were in the same boat – it happens to everyone. Thanks for the kind words, Amie, you're awesome. <3

By: Amie

Amie — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:10:57 +0000

LOVE. It's very easy to see what happened when you look back at it, yeah? But so much easier to live in denial while it's happening. I'd say I realized I shouldn't be married on my honeymoon, but hung on through three years of pain just because I couldn't let go.

*HUGS* my beautiful friend. Not everyone has the courage to admit they're in a bad place and then make changes to move on from it. You rock.

By: sn0tty

sn0tty — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 19:46:27 +0000

Thanks, Carliegirl – aren't you the sweetest. I admit, we have *very* similar paths, it's almost spooky. xo

By: Carlie Williams

Carlie Williams — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 18:21:56 +0000

Your journal entries are almost identical to mine when I was married. You, however, explain them in a way I wish I could. Please, please, please write your book. I want you to be out there in the world for everyone to know. You have a unique point of view. That is amazing in this world. You touch me whether through your acute realness or through your biting humor. Much love– C.

By: sn0tty

sn0tty — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 16:35:32 +0000

I think our divorce was exactly what I needed to make different decisions for myself. At least something positive came out of it. Thanks!

By: McKnight

McKnight — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 16:17:28 +0000

Thank you for sharing this.

Bad relationships can enable our negative behaviors. It's the good relationships that make us want to be better people. Sometimes it takes a clean break to snap you out of your stupor.

Very well written, thought-provoking, and deeply personal.